HOW TO SPICE UP SEX
In the hustle and bustle of everyday life, it's easy for couples to slip into a comfortable yet monotonous routine. Jobs, chores, and obligations take center stage, while the thrill of romance and adventure takes a back seat. But here's the good news: your love story doesn't have to remain trapped in this cycle.
Trying out new elements in the bedroom can become a good tool to increase and improve communication with your partner. Open communication is always the key to a good and healthy relationship and it is especially true during intimate times. Learning about, and acting according to, your partner's needs and fantasies can improve their pleasure greatly, and doing so as a couple helps you also discover more about your own body and its desires.
With that being said, what do you do when you want something a bit different? Though hard to give an answer applicable to every couple, we can still help you with a few ideas of what you can try and why. To start with, we should first talk about the importance of trying new things, so let’s get started!
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WHAT IS THE IMPORTANCE OF SPICING UP SEX?
There are a lot of reasons as to why couples could feel the need to spice up their sex life. Often if someone’s sex life turns into a routine, things can start to become predictable and start to feel less fun. But sometimes it is our thinking that the spark is gone that makes it go away.
Different problems within the relationship can also affect intimate times as well. Such as an argument or a misunderstanding can make it harder to get in the mood that day. Even though such instances don't mean that love or attraction towards the partner is lost, they can result in a lower sex drive. But don’t worry! If you feel things have become a bit cold or stale, there are always things you can do to spice things back up!
In the next section, we’ll give you a few ideas to try on your sexual journey with your partner!
5 SIMPLE WAYS TO SPICE UP YOUR SEX LIFE
You may already know of a few of these, but it's important to actually take the step to try them out! If you and your partner both want to try something new, in this article we will give you some ideas that can put the spice back in your sex life. Now, let’s look at what they can be!
・Get Some Toys
Adding a new sensation, such as from a new adult toy, is always a good idea for couples to try out. For that, getting a vibrator, or a ring to enhance both of your pleasure would be a good start! We would suggest getting the newly released SVR PLUS (SVR+) as it is a good fit for both coupled and solo play!
One thing to always keep in mind when you are looking for sex toys is that it is better to shop together with your partner to know their wants and desires. However, if they already told you what they like, it can also be a good idea to surprise them with something new that you know they will love!
・Massage Your Partner
Massaging helps relieve couples of stress and improves well being. The power of touch during a massage can lead to a more intense and satisfying sexual connection. Also, it can be a great way to increase the sexual tension before starting the night.
・Involve Lingerie
Putting on lingerie can be a part of foreplay and help set a sensual and romantic mood for the night ahead. It also encourages you and your partner to focus on each other, fostering a deeper physical connection. No matter who they are, wearing different types of lingerie or sexy clothing also adds variety to their intimate life and increases their self-esteem by bringing out their unique beauty.
・Create Anticipation
Anticipation can make the actual intimate encounter feel more exciting. The build-up of sexual tension and desire can lead to a more intense and passionate experience when the moment finally arrives. Engaging in activities that create anticipation, such as sexting, flirting, foreplay during the day, or going out for a romantic evening before, heightens arousal and sets the mood for a more satisfying sexual experience.
・Role-play
Role-playing offers creativity. It allows you to explore and fulfill fantasies and desires in a safe and consensual environment. Possibilities for it are endless. You can try a specific scenario, character, or fetish. Roleplay provides an opportunity to do anything, become anything, no matter how risqué - as long as both are willing- there are no limits. Also, taking on a different role can boost your self-esteem and confidence. Do you want to learn your partner’s desires and preferences? Then role-playing is the way to go.
CONCLUSION
Spicing up your sex life can become a journey of discovery and connection for you and your partner. In this article we tried to offer ideas to help you ignite the passion and intimacy that might have dwindled in the grind of daily life, or might have been lost over time. By embracing adult toys, massages, lingerie, anticipation-building activities, role-play, and more, you can add novelty and excitement into your intimate moments. Remember, the key to a healthier and more satisfying sex life lies in open communication, consent, and a willingness to explore together.
Take these ideas and embark on a journey to explore uncharted territories, creating unforgettable memories, and deepen the bond you share with your loved one. Also, remember that all you’ve read here are like black pepper and chili; they are tasty and good, but there are a lot more spices and tastes to discover, so you can always get creative and try things from your wildest imagination!
