How to Jerk Off Better
Believe it or not, learning to masturbate is a process. In the beginning, you start with a small bit of knowledge but you do what feels natural and pleasurable. And you definitely get better at it over time. You begin to know what you like and start feeling a whole lot of pleasure!
But after a while, you might lose some of that excitement. And the process, while still stimulating, gets a little routine and maybe even a bit boring. No doubt you reach ejaculation, but you might find yourself searching for something more, maybe something different from your usual routine.
Who can blame you? You want to feel even better, feel something that will make you tingle from head to toe.
But you only have two hands, what else can you do? Is this it? Is this the best you'll ever be able to do? Is there nothing else to look forward to? What else can you do to ramp up the excitement?
Well, don't despair! We have some exciting new ideas for you that just might take your self-pleasure to a new level. Stay tuned and learn how to jerk off better!
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Your Biggest Sex Organ (And it's Not Your Penis)
We're going to let you in on a little secret straight away. Your brain is the most powerful sex tool you have. Period. Seriously, if we could harness your imagination and tune into a really sexy episode you have running through your brain, we'd probably be feeling pretty satisfied, sitting up in bed smoking a cigarette after the virtual "sexy time". Just kidding, of course (Most of us are nonsmokers here. We'd probably be scooping up some ice cream in bed!).
Having said that, those that barely use their imagination, or the triggers that signal arousal (like talking dirty, using arousing scents, oral stimuli) during masturbation might want to tease and "play with your brain" a bit. It's perfectly okay if you don't want to, but there's nothing wrong with playing in the fantasy world. Instead of dismissing some wild fantasy because you feel like you're losing control, or don’t feel comfortable in the world of imagination, you might want to go with it for a while and see where it takes you. So long as you are in a physically safe environment, and not hurting anyone in the process, you need not worry.
Rest assured if you ever want to switch back to your old routine, you can always go back. It's like having two cars you can drive, the SUV or the sports car, your choice on any day. You're always in control, and you can safely and confidently return to any scenario you want, even your old original tried-and-true method. It's okay, go for it!
To help guide their imagination, some people also use a little "assisted stimulation", like porn, as we have observed in our 2019 TENGA Self Pleasure Report, where about half of those surveyed watched porn or use their imagination during masturbation. So rest assured, it is quite common and you won’t be alone in your journey to finding even more pleasure.
Other stimuli that may help your experience and you may wish to experiment with are using scented candles or essential oils to add some olfactory senses to the mood. Also, verbally expressing pleasure can add further to the realistic experience, if you are up for it. Eventually, your power of imagination may become so strong, everything will just come flowing to you and you won't need anything other than a TENGA toy to help facilitate another fulfilled fantasy! But we'll get to TENGA's toys in just a bit.
Still Using Your Hand?
Your hands, they've always been there for you. Very loyal and literally inseparable. But they do have limits. If you're still using your hands to masturbate, why not give them a break?
Have you tried using a masturbator? If you have not, or even if you have, TENGA probably has something you may have never tried yet. With a nearly unlimited variety of toys and sensations, including lotions, you could literally spend weeks, months, or even years without having to feel the same exact sensation. It boggles the mind!
If you've tried our disposable CUP Series, you might want to try out our reusable SPINNER Series. Or if you want to experience what vibrational sensations feel like, check out the Electronic Vibration (EV) versions of the FLIP 0 Series. Or lastly, if you want it all, spinning, vibrating and intense details, our EVR attachment can bring you a whole new kind of sensation that literally feels out of this world!
Our soft and firm elastomers provide amazing sensations, and combined with the intricate details packed in each sleeve, you are sure to find a new experience in every one of your sessions!
Living on the Edge
You can probably guess what edging is. You may have already tried it. It can be difficult, but it can also be very exciting. Getting close to the edge of an orgasm and stopping before you climax takes some practice, but it can have its rewards. You can prolong the session for much longer and experience pleasure several times over, while possibly having an even larger orgasm than you normally have without edging. Edging may also help with premature ejaculation, by helping you control your ejaculation timing.
For edging techniques, take a look at this article we wrote a while back.
Lube It Up! (Adding Lotion to the Motion)
Ask any car enthusiast what kind of oil they put in the engine of their expensive automobile and they will probably tell you some of the finest brands with the highest quality oils. You definitely don't want to put low-grade oil in a high-performance engine, why would you do the same thing to your sex toys? TENGA makes some of the best premium items for self-pleasure. We also make some of the finest lotions to accompany them. If you decide to take a little walk on the wild side, you might get yourself a set of different TENGA Lotions, combine for different mixes each session for a slightly different experience.
Our MILD, REGULAR and LIGHT lotions have different viscosities and will provide different sensations. When you combine them, you can almost create infinite levels of comfort and pleasure each and every time. Get inspired with a few tips from us.
And don't forget those hot summer nights when you could use some cool relief. We also have a COOL Edition to beat the heat! Be sure to get refills of your favorite lotions!
Cosplay with a Partner
Sometimes you get in the way of you. It sounds strange, but if you've been out in the working world for a while, interacting with many people, you have certainly created an identity that's anchored to you, including how you look, walk, talk, and even generally think. It's hard to escape that identity. But just by dressing like someone else can make you feel different, and even able to express another side of you that may have had trouble coming out. You might be able to reveal some of your inner passions that have never risen to the surface up to now. If you feel it's time to express another side of yourself then maybe a change in clothing can help facilitate this new reveal.
This trigger could just be as simple as wearing a costume. You start playing a new role, changing your language and tone of voice. You may even feel like a different person. It gets even better when you and your partner play roles with each other, turning this into a fun, enticing, and seductive escape.
Don't knock it until you try it! Role playing goes with what we have mentioned before, the mind is one of your most sensual and powerful sex organs!
So give it a try! You can thank us later.
Got Prostate? Touching the P-spot (Using an SVR)
Some of us often steer away from the word prostate because it is commonly associated it with "C" word, cancer, especially with older age groups. There is also the myriad of commercials in the United States by the pharmaceutical companies advertising their drugs for treating prostate cancer.
But we are here to clear the air. The prostate is rich in nerve endings, and it is known to provide some very stimulating and satisfying sensations to self-pleasure. While TENGA does not have any products to date that directly massage the prostate anally, we do have items that can satisfy prostate play, whether you are alone or with a partner.
One of our more popular partnered products is the TENGA/iroha SVR (Smart Vibe Ring), which can be used as a cock ring, a hand vibrator, or as we briefly mentioned, an external massager/vibrator for exploring other parts of the body, like the perineum, which is an area of skin between the scrotum and the anus (also known as the taint or gooch). The SVR can be used to stimulate the prostate through the perineum. The prostate, also known as the P-spot (male version of the G-spot) or the prostate gland, is an organ located internally roughly between the penis and the bladder.
For those who have experienced it, prostate orgasms are considered quite different from orgasms by penis stimulation, and can also be a great way to add to your sexual experience with a partner, or even with your self-pleasure routine.
Conclusion
Sometimes your usual masturbation routine can get a bit boring and less fulfilling. It's okay to walk on the wild side every now and then and explore the many possibilities of "jerking off" better. If it doesn't harm you or anyone else, it might be worth giving it a try. You could very well elevate your masturbation pleasure to a whole new level! And wouldn't that be worth it?
TENGA is always here to help you achieve higher heights of pleasure and satisfaction. Sexuality is an important part of life. We aim to realize a world where life is enriched with pleasure, through various activities, creations and collaborations. We hope you will join us in a life enriched with pleasure! Come visit our site to learn more about us.
