I bought this as my boyfriend's "first toy," and he loves it. He was nervous to get his first toy so he bought the first thing that came to mind, without reading reviews or asking me if I knew of any brands. He ended up buying a generic flashlight and got embarrassed when I found it drying on his countertop because he forgot to but it away. (I think the cleaning lady saw it too) He was very embarrassed and sad that he needed to buy a toy. He was also disappointed that it didn't feel like "the real thing." I explained that a toy is not necessarily supposed to be a replacement for sex but more of a treat for when you're alone. Also he was embarrassed about leaving such a phallic toy out on the counter for everyone to see.
After long conversation and dispelling the stigma of a straight man owning a toy, I went out and bought him THIS Tenga toy. Tenga products are beautiful!! Also since the toy doesn't take on the shape of a vagina it removes the insinuation that this is supposed to feel like one. My boyfriend loves this new toy! Says it feels amazing! Also he says he's less worried about accidentally leaving it out. Thank you Tenga for empowering my boyfriend!